"Learn to get what you really want
and love the things you already have"
You can not create prosperity by thinking or talking about your lack of
money. Focussing on what you lack, simply attracts more lack. Remember it
is one of the principle Laws of Attraction that what we focus on grows.
If we focus on what we lack, we simply attract more of the same. However, if we
focus our thoughts and attention on the positive, like being grateful for the
things we already have, then we will attract more of what we want. In fact
gratitude is one of the keys to achieving real prosperity.
What is Prosperity
Prosperity means different things to different people, for some it is
monetary and material things, for others it is spiritual and emotional issues. True
prosperity comes from achieving balance at all levels, spiritual, mental,
emotional and physical. I believe true prosperity is having your innermost needs
and desires met at all levels and being able to fully enjoy them.
Prosperity is something you experience in your mind and thoughts, it is not an external state and it is therefore
quite possible to experience prosperity at any level of income.
Prosperity is an internal experience, not an external state
Instead of thinking about the money, just close your eyes for a moment and
think of the things you most want in your life, on all levels, write them down
if you want. For you, true prosperity would be to have all those things and to
be able to fully enjoy them. We need to discover, at our
deepest and most honest level, what we want for ourselves.
Our relationship with Money
We often start out trying to get money to achieve a desired goal, but as time
goes by the money becomes the goal and the dream is left forgotten.
"when money becomes the goal, the dream is left forgotten"
Not everyone is destined or even well suited to having vast
amounts of money, but I do believe everyone deserves to, and can be prosperous.
Money empowers us to obtain and do things in our physical world, but if some of
your inner most needs and desires are things that money can't buy, then no
amount of money is going to make you feel prosperous. In fact large amounts of
money often brings unexpected problems, making life more complicated, increasing
your financial responsibilities and demanding a higher level of financial
management, that you might not want. Did you know that after two years, most
lottery winners have lost nearly all the money they received, with nothing
to show for it and are often worse off financially? The problem with any
windfall like this is that it rarely solves any problems. If you have not
resolved the negative internal beliefs you hold about money or yourself, then
often when you receive such a windfall, subconsciously you simply don't believe
you deserve it. And with such a negative belief. the subconscious gets busy
correcting the situation until you have the amount of money you believe you
What are your beliefs about money? How did your parents feel
about it and what did they teach you? It is worth taking a moment to really
think about this, write things down if you want to. It is a fact that many of
our negative beliefs come from our childhoods and if you received messages like,
"Money is really hard to come by" or "blood, sweat and tears is the only way to
get rich", these are very negative thoughts. They are effectively negative
affirmations that you will continue to achieve, until you identify them, let them
go and replace them with a positive affirmation.
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Attracting unlimited Abundance
Our world is infinitely abundant and we all deserve our share of
that abundance, all we have to do is be prepared to accept it. However the
reality is that at a subconscious level many of us simply do not believe that we
deserve the prosperity that we seek. This often manifests from other underlying
issues such as low self-esteem, fearfulness, guilt or any number of other
negative beliefs. In order to achieve true prosperity, it is necessary to
identify and release these underlying negative beliefs. Remember our external
reality mirrors our internal beliefs, how we think the world is
for us becomes our reality. By changing your inner thinking you can change your
changing your inner thinking, can change
your external reality
Prosperity Action List
Here are some key actions you can do to bring unlimited
abundance into your life..
Identify what your core needs and desires are
This is where you must really take the time to get to know your authentic self.
Use "quiet time" and meditation to help you clarify what is really important to
you and why. Knowing what you seek, is half the way to actually achieving it.
Identify any blocks to your deservability
As you say your affirmations, or when you think around money, it is likely that
you may experience negative reactions. If you say something positive, but inside
your thinking NOT! then you know that there is an issue there that must have
further attention. Once you have identified a block, spend time re-examining
your beliefs and experiences around it, try to identify trigger events or
influences. Ask yourself if these beliefs are really true for you, now. When you
are ready just release those negative thoughts.
Sometimes, if you have identified a serious block, that has a strong emotional
impact on you, or is based on some trauma in the past, it is best to seek a
therapist or councillor to help you through your issue, so that you can let it
go and move on to your prosperity.
Identify your true beliefs about money
Such beliefs usually but not always come from childhood. What are your beliefs
about money? Also, think about the things your parents taught you about money
when you were growing up. What feelings about money did you experience. Write
everything down. Then examine if these beliefs are actually true for you now. If
they are negative, you must re-examine the belief and release it, replacing it
with a positive, prosperous thought.
Affirmations for your prosperity
Here is a great one by Louise Hay to get you started. Once a day, stand with
your arms wide open and say with joy...
"I am open and receptive to all the good and abundance in the Universe, Thank you, Life."
Remember, everything you say and think is an affirmation. Be aware of your words
and your thoughts, keep them positive. Acknowledge and release any negative
thoughts that come up.
Become truly honest
What ever you take from life, life will take from you. You must avoid any form
of dis-honesty. This can actually be
really hard, because I don't just mean the obvious things, but also little things,
like not being honest with your change if the sales assistant has made a
mistake, or borrowing little items from the office. Or maybe you stealing time or
relationships or respect from others. All these things count, its like saying to yourself...
I don't deserve the good in life, so I'll sneak around and take it.
Thinking negatively about the things you want is what is called "poverty
thinking". To achieve your prosperity you must release this thinking. Instead,
start "Prosperity Thinking". Look around in your life, everywhere you will find
both big and little things to be grateful for, people you know, little events
that put a smile on your face, your children, money you receive.... our lives
are full of abundance already, but often we choose to ignore it. You will never
attract more abundance into your life if you disregard what you already have. So
every day set just a small amount of time aside to think about and be grateful
for all the good things you already have in your life, by cherishing and
focussing on the good things you have, you will attract even more into your
life. It is simple but true.
You only have power now. Choose to start implementing your Prosperity Action List Now!
Change can be difficult... even frightening to some. So we have put
together some free resources that you can use to get you started as well as some low cost
products to support and assist in your process of change.
Affirmations for Prosperity
Learn more about the positive power of affirmations and
other supporting techniques in our
affirmations page. But to help you get
started here are a couple more positive affirmations
designed to help with prosperity, especially for you.
"I am honest and open with myself and others"
"I love life and accept my abundance unconditionally"
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It is important that once you have committed to the
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